I really ought to be saying that yes, today is my due date and no, I haven’t had a baby yet, so leave me alone already and stop asking me how I am feeling.
But instead, well, you know…
Today
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Sending you internet hugs.
Thinking of you.
Sending hugs…thinking of you and remembering Luke.
have been thinking about it since i knew it was coming up…thinking of you…
Ugh … I feel for you. Sending love and sharing your hurt.
Hugs and internet love…
I’ve been thinkIng about you the past few days. Sending hugs…
The boys and I love you and are thinking of you
Thinking of you.
Thinking of you
I started reading you after your questionnaire went up on The Blathering. I remember your answer about having lost a baby and thinking, unfortunately, that we have that in common and what a crap thing to share with someone.
I’ve read back through your posts and I’m just so sorry about your loss. I hope that today is kind to you and to your heart.
Thinking of you, Jen. Wishing you peace and healing and lots of kindness today.
Big hugs and smooches to you.
:-( Big hug.
You and your sweet family are in my thoughts.
Sending you warm thoughts.
So very sorry that this is a sad day. I wish it was the day you were bringing your little boy into the world instead. Lots of love.
*hug* Be gentle with yourself today.
Thinking of the four of you today.
Lots of love and prayers for you today.
xoxox
Oh Jen. Thinking of you.
(((Hugs)))
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll be thinking of you today.
I’m sorry Jen. Thinking of you and remembering your little Luke.
xxx
:( Hugs, hugs, hugs.
*HUGS* Prayers for you and your family today.
Thinking of you today…and wishing things were different…
Thinking of you on this difficult day.
I’m very sorry. Today must be extremely hard for you. Thinking of you.
I’m so sorry, this is not how it was supposed to be. xo
((((Big internet hugs for you))))).
What a difficult day for your family. I hope Elizabeth has got some extra hugs for you and your husband today to go with the virtual ones.
I’m so very sorry for this difficult day. It shouldn’t be this way. Hugs to you, you’re in my thoughts today.
I found the due date of my son I lost to be particularly painful also. His birth/death date is coming up soon, and I wonder how will deal with that. You are in my thoughts and prayers today.
So sorry.
I hate this. I hate that Luke isn’t with you anymore.
My heart is aching for you today. Still. After all these months the wound is still fresh. For the both of us.
I keep telling myself that the due date is just a date now. Luke has his day and it is March 20th.
Abiding right along side you, friend.
Looks like you’re getting lots of bloggie love. You may as well get one more. ((HUGS))
Thinking of you, Matt, Elizabeth, and beautiful Luke… It’s unfair and ugly and awful and I wish there was a way to help. I’ll give you one more internet hug and hope that at least reminds you that you are cared for. <3
Wishing that today was the day it should have been. I’m sorry that it isn’t.
Oh Jen, What a sad day for you. I’ve been following your blog since everything happened and until this weekend I wasn’t able to fully wrap my head around what had happened to you. I had a miscarriage this weekend and though I wish this had never happened to you (or anyone for that matter), it’s comforting to me right now to know other people have had this happen, are able to work through it and share their feelings. Thank you for sharing what happened, it’s really made a difference for me.
thinking about you today!
I’m so sorry–the due date is so painful. I hope you were able to find some peace today. My thoughts are with you.
I was just thinking that this day was going to be coming up soon. So sorry–I hope you and Elizabeth had a good day.
So sorry Jen. I am definitely sending you an internet hug and will also send up some special prayers for you. Actually, just this past Sunday, during mass, the priest mentioned in a prayer about praying for those who have gone before us and I specifically thought of, and prayed for at that moment, your Luke. I think about you guys even when I’m not online. I’m sorry it had to be for such a sad reason, but you are thought of, by LOTS of people. Hope it helps the tiniest bit.
Hugs to you! I am so sorry.
I am so very sorry. I wish there was something more I could say.
HUGS to you, my friend.
Just another hg!
I’m so sorry, Jen. I am praying for you.
I’ve been thinking of you all day. I’m sorry I’ve been a bad friend and not said so earlier.
Love to all of you and thinking of Luke.
Loads of hugs
I’m very very sorry that your precious Luke came too early. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m so sorry Jen. Words fail me really but I just wanted you to know that I’m thinking of you and your family today and that precious little boy that was born too soon.
So sorry that you don’t get to say those words.
Thinking of you and sending you my love
I’m so very sorry. xo
I’m so so sorry that your son was born too soon. Thinking of you all.
Hugs. Just lots and lots of hugs.
Hugs.
I know I’m a day late but I wanted to let you know that I’m thinking of you and sending lots of hugs and love your way. Hope you’re taking care of yourself
Wishing my words could heal your pain… thinking of you…
Hugs
I am so sorry that people aren’t bugging you about if you delivered him yet. I am so sorry that you already delivered him much too soon and that he is not still here in your arms. Life really sucks sometimes. These milestones are really hard too. I am sorry that I am two days late in commenting here and letting you know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Remembering your baby boy with you this week and wishing he was still here on Earth. xoxo
late on this, but sending some hugs yoru way.
Belated (((HUGS))).
I know it was a week or so ago now, but remembering this day for you.
Bea
I’m so sorry. Thinking of you all and sending hugs.
Much love to you, Jen.
very belated {{{hugs}}} !!!
(I’m way behind in my reading)